Real ivory has a grain - sort of like wood. That's the first tip-off. But if you are serious about buying, have an expert look at them - it shouldn't cost much, if anything, for such a service.
Veils are fine if you want to go the traditional route. I think that many brides are not wearing veils these days. I didnt wear a veil. Instead I had my hair half up and half down. I added some nice hair pins that matched my dress. They were simple b...
Wear the white veil, especially since it is older, it's no longer pure white. Besides, the tulle in a veil is usally so fine that it's hard to tell white from ivory. Wear the one with the sentimental value! Who cares if it's not a 100% match.